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Decoding Emojis: Understanding Hidden Meanings in Digital Communication

Emojis serve as a complex form of communication that can convey a wide range of meanings, including those that are more sinister or problematic. Understanding these interpretations can help parents and guardians engage in meaningful conversations about online safety and communication with their children. It’s important to foster an environment of trust and open dialogue to discuss these interpretations and their implications.

Incel-Related Emojis

🔵 Blue Pill  Opposite of the Red Pill, represents ignorance or remaining in mainstream societal views rather than adopting incel ideology.

💊 Pill/Capsule Can symbolise red-pilling or black-pilling, referring to ideological awakenings, often in extremist or misogynistic circles.

⚫ Black Pill – Represents hopelessness, often used in incel communities to suggest there is no way to change one’s fate.

🤡 Clown Face – Used to mock someone perceived as naïve or deluded, sometimes directed at “normies” who don’t subscribe to incel beliefs.

🖤 Black Heart – Can symbolise nihilism, depression, or rejection of societal norms, often used in incel or extremist contexts.

🔴 Red Pill -Often associated with the “manosphere” or incel culture, symbolising awakening to a particular worldview often centered around misogyny.

💣 Dynamite – Used in incel circles to signify explosive ideas or actions, often in a violent context.

💯 100 – Represents authenticity or agreement, but can also imply a commitment to extreme beliefs, especially within incel communities.

🫘 Kidney Beans – In some contexts, this emoji can be used in incel memes to derogatorily reference women or to mock femininity.

❤️ Red Heart – Represents love; however, it can also be used manipulatively in emotional contexts.

💜 Purple Heart – Suggests sexual attraction or horniness.

💛 Yellow Heart – Indicates interest, often flirty but can also imply superficial engagement.

💗 Pink Heart – Expresses interest but suggests a desire for emotional connection without sexual implications.

🧡 Orange Heart – Offers reassurance, such as “you’re going to be fine,” but can also imply platonic affection.

Drug-Related Emojis

Commonly used to represent cannabis in various contexts 🍓 Strawberry, 🐶 Dog, 🍒 Cherries, 🍰 Cake, 🍦 Ice Cream, 🍃 Leaves

Used in various contexts to signify cocaine. 👃 Nose, 🐡 Blowfish, ⛽ Petrol Pump, ☃️ Snowman, ❄️ Snowflake

🎈 Balloon

Meaning: Represents nitrous oxide (NOS).

🐴 Horse

Meaning: Indicates ketamine.

⚫ Black Heart

Meaning: Can symbolise dark humour or alternative aesthetics but may also represent grief or loss.

👽 Plug – Refers to a drug dealer, colloquially known as a “plug.”

Sexual and Sexting Emojis

🍆 Eggplant, 🍑 Peach – Commonly used to represent male and female genitalia, respectively, especially in sexting contexts.

💦 Sweat Droplets – Often used to imply sexual arousal or excitement.

🤭 Face with Hand Over Mouth – Can signify shyness or embarrassment, often in a flirtatious or suggestive context.

🤫 Shushing Face – Indicates secrecy, possibly related to private or illicit conversations.

👀 Eyes – Used to suggest someone is watching or to indicate interest in someone else’s activities, often in a flirtatious manner.

Emojis Indicating Risky Behaviour

😈 Smiling Face with Horns – Suggests mischief or malicious intent; often used in contexts of playful or wicked behaviour.

👿 Angry Face with Horns – Represents anger or evil intentions, often used in confrontational contexts.

🤡 Clown Face – Can signify feeling foolish or being caught in a mistake, sometimes used to mock someone.

👁️ Eye – Represents being watched or surveillance, can also imply suspicion.

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Resources / Cannabis: the real risks
Young people & parents guide • London, Essex & Kent

Cannabis.
It’s not what it used to be.

Lots of young people think cannabis is harmless or “just weed”. But the cannabis sold today is much stronger than in the past, and some of it is mixed with other drugs, including spice. This guide explains the names it goes by, how it is mixed, the real risks to your body, mind and future, the law, and where to get help.

Did you know?

You can’t see, smell or taste spice. It can be in weed, sweets or vapes.

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The facts behind the smoke.

86%of children in drug and alcohol treatment in England in 2024 to 2025 were there because of cannabis, nearly 14,000 young people.
5×higher risk of psychosis for people who use high-strength cannabis every day, compared with people who have never used it.
1 in 3new cases of psychosis in London could be prevented if high-strength cannabis wasn’t available, according to the same study.
1 in 6vapes confiscated in schools in a University of Bath study contained spice.
2×the chance of a serious or fatal crash when driving after using cannabis.
Class BCannabis is illegal. Possession can lead to up to 5 years in prison, and supply up to 14 years.
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Know the names.

Cannabis goes by lots of names, and new ones appear all the time. Knowing them helps parents and carers recognise what young people are talking about.

Cannabis

Common names

Weed, bud, grass, herb, ganja, draw, dope, pot, puff, marijuana, green, loud, gas, zaza, pack

How it’s smoked

Joints and more

Spliff, zoot, joint, blunt, bong, “burning”, “blazing”, “smoking a zoot”

Strong strains

Skunk and more

Skunk, haze, kush, and many brand-style “strain” names

Resin and concentrates

Very strong forms

Hash, resin, solid, oil, wax, dabs, shatter

Edibles and vapes

Hidden forms

Edibles, gummies, “THC sweets”, carts, THC vapes, pens

Synthetic cannabinoids

Spice

Spice, mamba, black mamba, K2, “wet” or sprayed weed, and often sold simply as “THC”

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How it’s mixed, and why that matters.

Much stronger than before. Most cannabis sold in the UK today is high-strength skunk, with much more THC (the chemical that gets you high) and little or none of the CBD that can balance its effects.

Mixed with tobacco. Most joints contain tobacco, so people get hooked on nicotine as well, with all the risks of smoking.

Mixed with alcohol. Combining the two makes people far more likely to feel very sick, dizzy and faint, sometimes called “whitey-ing”.

Cut with other substances. Street cannabis isn’t checked. It can contain pesticides, mould, or other drugs, and there is no way to know what you have.

Edibles are unpredictable. They take a long time to work, so people often take more, then feel the effects all at once. They can look exactly like well-known sweets and chocolate, which puts younger children at risk.

Spice (synthetic cannabinoids)

Not weed. Far more dangerous.

Spice is a man-made chemical designed to act like cannabis, but it can be many times stronger and much less predictable. It is sometimes sprayed onto herbal cannabis or added to sweets and vapes sold as “THC”.

In April 2026, spice was found in coloured vape liquids in Merton, south London, after several under-18s were taken to hospital.

999 If someone collapses

Warning signs

  1. Extreme panic, paranoia or hallucinations
  2. Confusion, aggression or very strange behaviour
  3. A racing heart, chest pain or being sick
  4. Seizures, collapse or not responding

Call 999 if someone collapses, has a seizure or can’t be woken. Put them on their side in the recovery position, stay with them, and tell paramedics what they took.

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The risks to your mind, body and future.

The teenage brain is still developing until around age 25, which makes young people more vulnerable to cannabis’s effects.

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Mental health

Anxiety, panic attacks, paranoia, low mood and sleep problems. Regular use of strong cannabis increases the risk of psychosis, especially for teenagers and people with a family history of mental illness.

02

Memory and learning

Cannabis affects concentration, memory and motivation. Regular use by young people has been linked to poorer exam results.

03

Addiction

Cannabis can be addictive. Heavy users can crave it and feel irritable, anxious and unable to sleep or eat when they stop.

04

Lungs and heart

Smoking cannabis, especially with tobacco, causes coughing and wheezing, makes asthma worse, and long-term can lead to lung and heart problems.

05

Exploitation and debt

Young people who use or sell cannabis can be drawn into debt, threatened, or exploited by gangs and county lines.

06

Accidents

Cannabis slows reactions and affects judgement, making accidents, injuries and risky situations more likely.

05

What the law says.

Cannabis and most synthetic cannabinoids are Class B drugs. CBD products sold in shops are different, but anything sold as “THC” is illegal.

Up to 5 years

Possession

Having cannabis for yourself is illegal, even a small amount. Police may give a warning or a fine at first, but you can be arrested.

Up to 14 years

Supply

Selling, sharing or even passing cannabis to a friend counts as supply, which is treated much more seriously.

Up to 14 years

Growing

Growing cannabis, or letting it be grown or used in your home, is a crime.

Driving

Drug driving

Driving with cannabis in your system is illegal. It can lead to a driving ban, a fine and a criminal record.

Your future

A criminal record

A drugs conviction can affect college and university places, jobs, and travel to countries such as the USA.

Under 18

No exceptions

Young people can be arrested from age 10. Police and schools may also refer young people to support services.

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For parents and carers.

Stay calm and keep talking. Young people are more likely to be honest if they don’t expect a row. Ask what they know and what their friends think.

Share the facts, not scare stories. Talk about how strong cannabis is today, and about spice in “THC” sweets and vapes.

Watch for debt or pressure. Unexplained money, new phones, or seeming scared of certain people can be signs of exploitation.

Get support early. Young people’s drug services are free and confidential, and you can contact them for advice too.

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Get support

Free and confidential help for young people and families in London, Essex and Kent. Young people can contact most services themselves.

We’re always here to talk
Want to cut down, worried about what you’ve taken, under pressure, or worried about someone else? Youth Unity is always here to listen. No judgement, just support.
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Supporting Tendring’s Young People

Supporting Clacton's Young People: Insights from Our Detached Youth Work Sessions

When we first launched our detached youth work sessions in Jaywick back in May 2024, our goal was clear—to provide a safe, supportive space for young people to engage, express themselves, and access the help they need. These sessions quickly became a lifeline for many, offering structured activities, guidance, and a sense of community.

However, as time went on, we realised that our impact could be even greater if we shifted focus. While Jaywick had its needs, we saw a huge opportunity in Clacton Town Centre—a key area where young people naturally gather, socialise, and seek support. So, in September 2024, we took that step, expanding our outreach to Clacton Town Centre and Clacton Leisure Centre to reach more young people where they are.

What We’ve Seen & Done

Jaywick: A Meaningful Start

Our Jaywick sessions introduced football, arts and crafts, and youth discussions, creating a safe environment for young people to relax and open up.

  • We engaged young people from all backgrounds, including those from disadvantaged households and foster care.
  • Some of the young people we met were struggling with education, home life, and self-care, our team stepped in with advice and guidance.
  • We supported a talented gymnast in overcoming financial and transport barriers to attend a local club.
  • Families facing eviction and social challenges found a listening ear and connections to support services.
  • As funding constraints and the colder months set in, we shifted focus to Clacton, while keeping plans in place to restart Jaywick sessions in Spring 2025.

Clacton: Reaching More Young People

Moving to Clacton Town Centre and Clacton Leisure Centre has significantly increased our impact:

  • Town Centre Engagement: We regularly meet young people after school, providing guidance, signposting support, and a trusted presence in their daily routine.
  • Helping Families in Crisis: We met a mother of five living in a hotel due to a house fire. Her daughter, struggling with self-harm and school attendance, needed urgent help.
  • Strengthening Partnerships: Conversations with local police help us identify young people in need and create better support systems.

Skate Park & Leisure Centre: A Hub of Opportunity & Challenges

  • We’ve connected with 25+ young people at the skate park, discussing music, school, and future aspirations.
  • Young people loved the idea of a mobile youth club, which we’re actively exploring.
  • We’ve noticed a growing number of NEET young people (Not in Education, Employment, or Training) spending their days at the skate park. This raises serious concerns about educational oversight and future prospects.
  • Accessibility is a major barrier; many young people can’t afford the Leisure Centre, making public spaces like the skate park even more crucial.
  • Team Kinetix’s free Parkour sessions & hot food were a great idea, but some young people felt left out, a reminder that engagement must be inclusive and youth-led.

The Real Challenges Young People Face

Throughout our work, we’ve heard tough stories and seen real struggles:
🔹 Education Barriers – Some young people haven’t been in full-time education for years due to placement issues, relocation, or bullying.
🔹 Mental Health Concerns; Many express hopelessness about their future, and some spend hours outside in the cold, feeling lost.
🔹 Community & Space Issues; Some young people feel excluded from local facilities due to cost barriers, while others feel pushed out of their spaces when organised activities take over.

However, as time went on, we realised that our impact could be even greater if we shifted focus. While Jaywick had its needs, we saw a huge opportunity in Clacton Town Centre; a key area where young people naturally gather, socialise, and seek support. 

What’s Next? Turning Impact into Action

We’re building on what we’ve learned and taking action to provide even stronger support, subject to us obtaining funding to continue this amazing work.

✅ Expanding Our Presence – We’re introducing a youth engagement van with equipment to make our sessions even more accessible and dynamic.
✅ Collaborating for Change – We’re working with TDC, Connect, and the Leisure Centre to improve accessibility, offer food support, and create aspirational opportunities.
✅ Providing Safe Spaces – We’re pushing for warm, welcoming places where young people can connect, socialise, and get support when they need it.

Why This Work Matters

Our move from Jaywick to Clacton has reinforced one clear truth: young people need trusted adults who show up, listen, and act.

By being present, building trust, and providing real solutions to real problems, we’re helping young people feel seen, valued, and hopeful about their future.

We’re committed to keeping this momentum going—because every young person deserves to feel supported, empowered, and heard.

Thank you to everyone who has supported our journey so far!

Testimonials

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Since his time with us Paul’s input has been invaluable.  His determination to help our young people and real life examples ensure that he fosters a good rapport with our hard to reach students.

His real life grit and authenticity ensures that he is able to reason with our pupils and achieve desired outcomes and next steps in their lives and Education.

Paul provides our pupils with real life examples of his own past, as well as trying to make his stories relevant to their lives and the demographic that we serve.  Youth Unity is an asset to have in our arsenal of services that we use to help young people.  

Clare Bedford Safeguarding Tendring Technology College (Lift Tendring)

Testimonials

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Having Youth Unity work with some of our most challenging students has been an incredibly valuable intervention. Sandra and Paul have built a fantastic rapport with the students they connect with at Lift Clacton, engaging them in meaningful conversations on a wide range of topics, issues, and concerns. They provide thoughtful advice while teaching vital skills such as resilience and effective strategies for managing challenges.

Our students genuinely look forward to their weekly sessions with Sandra and Paul, finding tremendous value in the one-to-one support they receive. What’s even more remarkable is their flexibility and willingness to adapt their approach to meet the needs of our students. For example, they often facilitate group sessions for two students when one of them is feeling particularly vulnerable or anxious, creating a supportive and collaborative environment that meets individual needs.

Sandra and Paul’s deep understanding of our students and their families within the community is invaluable. Their insights and collaboration equip us as staff to better support both the students and their families in meaningful and informed ways.

We are incredibly grateful to Sandra and Paul for their ongoing commitment, not only to our students at Lift Clacton but also to building strong, collaborative relationships with our staff. 

Thank you for the positive impact you continue to have on our school community.

Debrah-Anne Hilton

Pastoral Leader

Lift Clacton 

Testimonials

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In 2024, I engaged Youth Unity to provide intensive one-to-one mentoring and support for a young person facing significant challenges. This young person was at the center of ongoing domestic incidents in the home, which began to spill into the wider community. As a result, both the young person and their sibling became involved in anti-social behavior, escalating tensions within the local area.

The impact of this anti-social behavior was profound, not only straining relationships in the community but also leading to a backlash against their mother, who faced additional pressure and distress. Recognizing the urgent need for intervention, I referred the family to Youth Unity, who stepped in to provide tailored support and mentoring.

Youth Unity is now actively working with the young person and their family, focusing on rebuilding trust, addressing the root causes of the behavior, and fostering positive change. Their involvement has been invaluable in helping to stabilize the family dynamic and alleviate tensions within the community.

PC Con Bowen – CYP Officer Essex Police

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Empowering Youth Through Boxing and Fitness Sessions in Debden

We’re pumped to announce free weekly boxing and fitness coaching sessions just for young people aged 11 to 16 in the Debden area of Epping! Whether you’re looking to get active, learn new skills, or just try something fun, this is your chance to get involved.

👊 What’s in it for you?

  • Learn awesome boxing moves and boost your fitness.
  • Train with top coaches in a safe, friendly space.
  • Meet new mates and have a blast while staying active!

✨ Who can join?
These sessions are open to both girls and boys aged 11–16. No experience? No problem! Just bring your energy and we’ll take care of the rest.

11 to 13 year olds Monday 4.30 to 5.30pm

14 to 16 year olds Friday 4.30pm to 5.30pm

📆 When and Where?
Two sessions a week, kicking off from 10th February through to the end of March. Don’t miss your chance to get involved in this epic pilot project!

Dennis & Dyer Boxing Gym 30 Barrington Grn, Debden, Loughton IG10 (on the corner of Debden High Street)

💥 It’s completely FREE!
All you need to do is register (so we can get parental permissions sorted). Don’t worry if you can’t sign up straight away – just drop in, grab the forms, and join the next session once registered.

This project, proudly funded by ECVYS, is all about giving young people in Debden a positive way to stay active and connected. Don’t miss out – grab your friends, get involved, and make this your time to shine!

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New Youth Hub Opens in Romford to Support Young People

This week (29th January) marked the official launch of our brand-new youth hub in Romford, a vital initiative made possible thanks to the generous support of Transport for London (TFL) and the Havering Community Service Partnership Team, with funding provided by the Violence Reduction Unit (MOPAC). This space has been created to offer young people a safe and welcoming environment, where they can access mentoring, guidance, and support.

At the hub, we provide 1:1 mentoring for young people aged 14 to 25 through referrals. Our professional youth workers are dedicated to creating a positive and engaging space, offering support on a range of topics, from education and career advice to personal development and well-being. Whether they need a listening ear, help navigating challenges, or just a space to feel safe, we are here to support them.

However, the long-term success of this project relies on the involvement of local businesses and community members. By working together, we can create a meaningful and lasting impact, steering young people away from negative influences and towards opportunities that empower them to succeed. We invite local businesses and organisations to support this initiative and help us provide the best possible future for young people in our community.

We extend our sincere gratitude to everyone who attended the launch and showed their support. Your involvement makes all the difference.

If you would like to learn more about our mentoring program or explore ways to support the hub, we would love to hear from you. Together, we can create a safer and brighter future for our young people.

For more information, please contact shirley@youthunity.org

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Romford Outreach

At Youth Unity, we’re proud to be working on a new project funded by the Community Recovery Fund (CRF). This initiative is all about creating safer spaces, preventing issues before they happen, and building stronger relationships between young people and their communities.

What’s Happening in Romford Town Centre?

Romford is a busy town with lots going on, but it’s also an area that faces challenges. Over the past few years, we’ve been running activities that have made a real difference to young people and local businesses.

What We’re Doing:

  • Continuing our Wednesday afternoon youth sessions until March 2025.
  • Chatting with young people and businesses to build relationships and make the area feel safer.
  • Running fun and positive activities to keep young people engaged and connected.

Why This Matters

We want young people in Romford to feel safe, supported, and inspired to achieve their goals. This project is about:

  • Giving them opportunities to learn and have fun.
  • Reducing anti-social behavior and violence.
  • Building stronger connections between young people, local businesses, and the wider community.

By working together, we can create spaces where young people feel they belong, where they can thrive, and where the community feels stronger than ever.

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Creating Safer Spaces: Supporting Young People in Hildene

Youth Unity is proud to be working in partnership with the Metropolitan Police on the Our Harold Hill: Clear Hold Build initiative.

Part of this project is to create safe spaces for young people in Harold Hill, offering them a place to come together, engage in positive activities, and build a sense of community.

By providing support, resources, and opportunities, this initiative aims to empower young people, reduce anti-social behaviour, and foster a safer, more inclusive environment for everyone. Together, we are committed to making Harold Hill a place where young people feel safe, valued, and inspired to thrive.

Read this full article regarding the The Clear Hold Build project.

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