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Case Study 14

How Youth Unity Transformed a Family’s Struggle into Strength

We want to share how Youth Unity has been an incredible source of support for this family.

As a severely disabled widow with two neurodiverse teenage children, life has been extremely challenging. Over the past year, they have faced significant difficulties due to the behaviour of the teenage son, which was violent, destructive, and incredibly hard to manage at both home and school.

Youth Unity stepped in and provided a safe space for him to open up about his behaviour and the choices he was making. Through these conversations, he has been able to reflect and make more positive decisions, leading to a significant reduction in violence.

But their support didn’t stop there. Youth Unity also recognised the impact on the daughter, ensuring she had access to activities tailored for her, rather than feeling the need to follow in her brother’s footsteps.

For the mother, the support has been invaluable. Youth Unity has stayed in regular contact, listening without judgment, validating her as a parent, and giving her the strength to keep going—even on the hardest days. Parents facing violent or challenging behavior from their children often feel ashamed and withdraw from others, which is exactly what happened in this case. Youth Unity helped break that isolation, reminding her that she and her needs matter just as much as her children’s.

There is still a long journey ahead, made even more difficult by the long waiting times for professional services like CAMHS to provide therapy. Youth Unity has been there during this waiting period, offering the crucial support families need when they feel like there’s nowhere else to turn.

The experience with Youth Unity has been nothing but positive, and their work has made a real difference for this family.

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An amazing testimonial for Paul Robinson, Mentor, Tendring

“I really enjoy working alongside Paul and can see the positive impact his work has on my young people. 

Paul, and other mentors I work with, have life stories that are an inspiration.  They inspire my work but most importantly, inspire my young people who I see come out of their shells, open up and talk.  They don’t even realise – the power of sport and indirect approaches.  Kids sitting in a room and talking about their life when on the spot, doesn’t work.  Kids kicking a ball around, hearing ‘lived experiences’ and how people dug themselves out of their hole… that is real!

They see that people don’t do it on their own but by accepting help.  They see that talking about stuff can be a release and help them to make better decisions.  Paul often brings his dog to sessions – again, animals have this magic power.  They give unconditional love and ‘just get people’.  It really helps kids and adults open up.  

What Paul offers is what many of these kids miss – a relationship, a connection, someone they can relate to.  He offers unpressured opportunities, no taboos and a safe place.  Paul is ‘lived experience’ and we can all learn from what he has to offer.  As said, a true inspiration and a bit of magic for the kids”.

Steffi Thorhauer-White

Turnaround Practitioner

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Testimony from Tendring Technology College;

Paul Robinson, Mentor

Since his time with us Paul’s input has been invaluable.  His determination to help our young people and real life examples ensure that he fosters a good rapport with our hard to reach students.

His real life grit and authenticity ensures that he is able to reason with our pupils and achieve desired outcomes and next steps in their lives and Education.

Paul provides our pupils with real life examples of his own past, as well as trying to make his stories relevant to their lives and the demographic that we serve.  Youth Unity is an asset to have in our arsenal of services that we use to help young people.

Safeguarding Officer 

Thorpe Campus